Not so long ago I was having a conversation with my brother. And he was sharing with me a situation he was having at work. And in the midst of the situation he said, “A still small voice said…ARE YOU A COACH OR A REFEREE?” He said he was dumbfounded. We soon finished our conversation and that stayed with me all day! Am I a coach or a referee? Do I see things and encourage on how to make things better as a coach would or do I like a referee keep my eyes peeled to find the errors and faults.
So it is to you…are you a coach or a referee?